Monday, June 29, 2009
He emailed me back: "Glad you're home and ok babe, take care of your old ass."
You see what I mean? why I'm still....
Saturday, June 27, 2009
With less than 10 hours to prepare, the inmates at Cebu Detention and Rehabilitation Center did this tribute to Michael Jackson. The same inmates who did "Thriller" which made them famous. Byron Garcia, the governors brother did not do it to be famous but did it as a form of exercise for the inmates.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
When you read the papers, you can see everyone putting in their 2 cents. One 19-year old even commented about the governor not "being a good role model for him." Dude, your role model is not politicians or ball players. It's called parents, you hear? Others say that the State of South Carolina was in danger because she was without a governor for 5 days. There must be some other crackheads left behind minding the store, wasn't there?
Politicians, married and going beyond established limits. I am not going to talk about morals or why they should be held up to a higher standard because they are public servants. Girl please, the man or woman we elect for public office is simply the reflection of who we are as a people, so why are the people so surprised or even startled when these elected officials suddenly acts up like humans?
I am sick of people trying to raise their moral banner on other people. I believe in moral absolute, and that there's an absolute truth, nevertheless, I also believe in giving a hand to someone who has fallen. Copies of emails between Mark Sanford and his Argentinian mistress was posted by The State, a local S.C. newspaper. That to me is sicker than the adultery Mark has done. The wife and the kids have been kicked in the stomach already, then the local paper decides to kick them some more. I would boycott that paper in a heartbeat.
In the Philippines where I came from, if a man doesn't have a mistress he's looked upon as abnormal. And to be considered really normal, he has to have more than 1 mistress. Especially, if he is a politician. So Mark, don't worry about the presidential bid for 2012; America voted for a black president for a change - by then, America would either love or hate Barack so much that any change will be welcomed again just for the hell of it. The American people will find it endearing then to see dark Maria travel back and forth to Argentina aboard Air Force One.......while you take the bus. That's love.
Sunday, June 21, 2009
You molded me for good use
A little kink, a little bent
"Not quite perfect," I muse
I took on a shape, a character
Is somebody going to notice me?
"Don't forget your purpose," you whisper
I don't feel anyone touch me
I don't feel, I don't hear, I don't see
Would you whisper it to me loudly?
The storm, the storm, I am broken
I don't need more love, I don't need more money
I need my Savior. Patch me whole. Again.
I am a broken pot, can't you tell?
"No, In my eyes you are whole"
"I love you, even when you don't feel"
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Two months ago, when I was walking around KL airport, waiting for my flight to Penang, a thought suddenly came to me that jolted me into a profound realization: I said to myself, "One of these days, I will either get disabled or dead. I will do whatever I want to do now if I can afford it."
Then two weeks after I landed back here in Dallas, I landed in the hospital. Lying in that hospital bed I was reminded of that thought and while anguished about the future, I concluded I have no regrets of the past.
If you thought I look horrible here with my bedhead, you should have seen my face-red and swollen from the dengue fever. This was the night when the doctor told me I could go home in the morning. Chat likes to take pictures of me in the hospital because she said she wants to show it to me when "you get cocky at times."
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
While sitting there and looking out the window, an outburst of emotion came over me; suddenly life seems meaningful and at the same time it felt meaningless. I started to feel the urgency to get to a stream, a river or a lake and just sit and stare. I dreamed it to be a cool morning, with the dew on the leaves of the trees dripping on me. Then I dreamed of the European countryside, me standing on the foot of the hill (I don't know what hill in Europe)looking out to the vast valley before me. But I also saw myself sitting by the Mekong river sipping tea tarik, just gazing out to nowhere.
I thought to myself; no more hostels, no more budget airlines, no more roughing it. I want to be a nicely dressed traveller, not a grungy tourist. I still want to be a vagabond but tweaked a little, like, a bank account at every country I happen to be. Then I woke up and realized that it's all I could afford - to dream. Because finally, my butt is broke. My finances was on a slippery slope anyway,I know that, but I never thought that a mosquito can topple me or my finances. See, it's always them little things that gets you.
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Seriously, when the doctors could not come up with a positive in any of the tests that were done, in between bouts of bone breaking fever and chills I kept thinking I will not come out alive because the doctors kept telling me "You are very sick, more than you know, your organs could fail anytime because your blood count is dropping but your body is fighting it out now." I got very afraid for the future.
I told Chat no visitors then she started texting my preacher friends in Cebu to activate a prayer group, I called my praying friends here in Dallas and they put me on speaker so I could hear them pray for me. I don't ask everybody to pray because I know who among my friends has a prayer life and those who doesn't. I cry when I think about what the doctor said, "Your body is fighting it out now." I know very well it's not "my body" who was fighting but the One who created my body.
I am a firm believer that God is aware of every detail that is happening to us because the Bible says that He either "cause" it or "allows" it. I was comforted a lot by this knowledge. And I am so thankful that I am sick in a country where they don't ask your family to come up with money first before you can be treated. Whatever the doctor thinks your body needs, they administer it. And when it's time for you to go home, you don't stop by the cashier to settle bills -doesn't matter if your bill is 1k or 1mil. This is America and boy, do I thank God for her.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
I was rushed to the hospital 3 days ago because over the weekend the body aches that was bothering me since I got back from the Philippines finally morphed into a whole body rash and bone breaking fever. The doctor at the urgent care clinic was frantic to send me to the ER because my blood platelet count was low and there was blood in my urine. He thought I must have gotten some parasites from Malaysia.
The doctor is leaning towards dengue fever but until the test comes back positive we're just going by my symptoms. Here are the early symptoms:
2. low grade fever/sometimes high
3. body aches
The first week, all the above happened intermittently then I feel good the rest of the day but tiredness was dominant. Watch for the day that you won't have this symptom, because the day after you will get it really bad and that begins your real misery. Bone breaking fever, rashes all over your body, nothing is spared because even my eyeballs are blood shot, then my extremities are swollen. My eyelids are swollen way above my face. This won't be the time to enter any beauty contest my doctor said. And don't forget the vomitting and diarrhea.
There's no cure for dengue, you just have to let it run through the course - that is if you come out alive from the symptoms. (at least that's how I feel)
I know the cost of this hospital stay would pay for a whole years stay at the Four Seasons or Bangkok Oriental. And Chat thinks that I got this because I was "roughing it in Asia", John thinks I got it just because I was in Asia. He told Chat to stop letting me go to Asia...how rude.
"Why doesn't she go to Europe, why does she keep going to Asia?" "Maybe because she's from there?" Chat told John. So now Chat tells me not to go back to Asia. "At least in Europe, you may come back with a French lover, not a stupid dengue fever."
Well, with this hospital bill - I won't be going anywhere but to work.
Saturday, June 06, 2009
Last night, friends of mine invited me to their house to meet Peter Loth. I was so happy that Chat agreed to come with me because the way I have been feeling lately, I wasn't sure I would make it there. But once we got there, I started to feel better. How could I not after hearing Peter's story. Peter was born in the Nazi concentration camp and did not get out of the children's prison until he was 16. To avoid being killed because he is a Jew, his mother handed him to a Polish woman when he was 3 months old. Whenever you go to a Holocaust museum, look up Peter Loth and you will see him when he was a baby.
In spite of the pain of torture and rape that he went through, Peter told his story bravely injecting humor in between holding back tears. When Chat was introduced to him, first thing he asked was, "Where are you from?" and crazy as Chat is, she said, "I am from Iran." Peter gave her a cockeye and we all laughed while he hugged his enemy.
,Peter's message is to promote awareness that the Holocaust did happen and so people won't forget, but most of all, he wants to tell people that forgiveness was not easy to come by. He held on to that hatred because that was the only thing he can hold on to - without hatred, he had nothing left. He did not want to forgive Hitler and the Germans, but when he found Jesus, he had to buckle down his knees and follow what Jesus said: "Forgive, or your father in Heaven will not forgive you." And when he finally did forgive, he was liberated and free, he said. And that's always been my message to everyone: stop nursing your hatred, let it go or that person who has hurt you will own you. Let go. Let God.
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
This was the before and after.
This is my second box of mangoes since I got back from Cebu. ($6.99 for 18pcs.) Tiny mangoes from Mexico but they're very sweet.