Still Waiting

I remain friends with all of my ex's because it's easier on the body than to be hateful towards them. Each of them has his own endearing quality and each of them has his own unique malignancy. There's NJ, we're still the best of friends and we'd cross the Atlantic for each other if needed, so when I was in the hospital 3 weeks ago, Chat emailed him. He was concerned so I emailed him to tell him I am well and at home.
He emailed me back: "Glad you're home and ok babe, take care of your old ass."
You see what I mean? why I'm still....